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Making Special Valentines Day Plans

Mark Webb — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 14:02:33 +0000

Women can always tell if you put thought into Valentine’s Day or if you are just winging it. Careful planning will give her the message that she is special to you.

Things to Remember Before Valentine’s Day

Do something to remind you to plan early, such as writing a note.

Don’t wait until the last minute to prepare.

Make dinner reservations.
Preorder flowers.
Get her a card before they are picked through.
Arrange a babysitter yourself; don’t make her do it.

She needs to know that she knows that she is special to you, that she is your top priority.

Remember, you want to bring a smile to her face or a tear to her eye.

Do something so out of the ordinary that you surprise even yourself.

Special Valentine’s Day Plans

Look through your wedding album together.
Make her a Valentine’s card.
Place a Valentine’s card under her pillow.
Place a flower under her car windshield wiper.
Hide a love note among a bouquet of flowers.
Deliver a Valentine to her place of work.
Leave notes that give clues to a restaurant where you are taking her.
Blindfold her and take her to a nice dinner.
Take the day off and spend it treating her like the special woman she is.
Have breakfast, lunch and dinner by candlelight.
Make a banner that says Happy Valentine’s Day.
Give her a dozen red roses or a dozen of her favorite flowers.
Make a CD of love songs that are special to the two of you.
Write her a love letter or poem.
Make a list of the reasons you fell in love with her.
Take her on a picnic.
Pray for her and your relationship together.
Recreate your first date, proposal, or some other special moment.
Commit yourself to her in some way: promise you will strive to live up to your wedding vows; to have more fun in the relationship; or to be more spiritually focused as a partner.

It’s the Simple Things that Matter…

Kiss her hand the right way by lowering your lips to her hand.
Whisper something loving in her ear.
Wish her Happy Valentine’s Day first thing in the morning.
Choose a Valentine’s Day card before they are picked through.
Ask her to be your Valentine.

Mark Webb is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice at South Georgia Psychiatric and Counseling Center in Valdosta. Mark Webb is also the author of How To Be A Great Partner and founder of Partner Focused Relationships™. Sign up for Mark Webb’s “Relationship Strategies” Ezine ($100 Value). Just visit his website at http://www.powerfulrelationshipadvice.com or http://www.therelationshipspecialist.com

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More Ideas For A Special On Valentines Day

Mark Webb — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 14:54:50 +0000

I believe that every man can be the most romantic guy in the world. Being a romantic should be a part of your every day behavior. One day stands above the rest, Valentine’s Day.

Let your woman know that she is important to you. Give her your complete attention and make sure you convey the message that she is special to you.

More Ideas To Make Valentine’s Day Special For Your Special Lady

Plan ahead: Don’t buy gifts or flowers at the last minute; make dinner reservations now, long lines can kill the date.
Either take her out to dinner or cook her meal. Give her the night off from the kitchen.
Instead of dinner by candlelight, serve her breakfast by candlelight.
When you tell her you love her, say it with enthusiasm, and from your heart.
Make a list of the 10 reasons why you fell in love with her.
Always get her a card, better yet, make her one yourself.
Always wrap her gifts. Use extra nice wrapping paper and fancy bows.
Take her to church and say a special prayer for your relationship.
Take her on a picnic.
Go for a walk and hold hands.
Read her poetry.
Sing her a love song.
Spend the day watching romantic movies.
Recreate your first date.
Stay at a hotel’s honeymoon suite.
Carve her initials and yours in a tree.
If you can, take the day off from work.
If you plan to buy her clothing, make sure you know all her sizes.
Make an effort that is as big as the love you have for her.
The goal is to make her feel special.

Mark Webb is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice at South Georgia Psychiatric and Counseling Center in Valdosta. Mark Webb is also the author of How To Be A Great Partner and founder of Partner Focused Relationships™. Sign up for Mark Webb’s “Relationship Strategies” Ezine ($100 Value). Just visit his website at http://www.powerfulrelationshipadvice.com or http://www.therelationshipspecialist.com

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Ideas To Make Her Feel Special On Valentine’s Day

Mark Webb — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 15:40:11 +0000

Valentine’s Day will soon be upon us and it is a day that men can make the woman in their lives feel that they are special…or suffer the consequences.
If you forget Valentine’s Day, you are sending her a message that she is not special and that she is not important to you. It is the overdoing – that time and effort, that sets romantic couples apart from the rest.
Most men will tell you that their partner is the most important thing in their lives, but unfortunately, their actions don’t always reflect this. Relationships require attention. On a special day like Valentine’s Day, men should devote 100 percent of themselves to the woman in their lives. Men often come up with excuses such as “I’m not creative, she knows I love her” or “It’s not my nature to be romantic”.
Some of the ways to make her feel special on Valentine’s Day is the “old reliable” chocolate, but not if she is on a diet. Instead of roses, buy her flowers that begin with the first letter of her name. When writing on her Valentine’s Day card, try and be expressive, don’t sign with a mere “Love,” go deeper. Mail her more than one card, mail them to her home and business addresses. For the truly devoted men, try and send her a card every hour on the hour.
The time, effort and thoughts demonstrated are more appreciated than money spent. Unplug the television for the day, or better yet, turn off the power at your home. With no T.V. or computer to distract you and no furnace to warm you, you set the stage for romance with candles, a fire and blankets.
Another way to make her feel special is to take her a towel while she is in the shower, warm it in the dryer and when she steps out of the shower, hand it to her.
Life is too short not to be romantic and romantic people are happier than most. Remember the goal is to make her feel special.

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