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How To Avoid A Midlife Crisis

How To Avoid A Midlife Crisis “Whether a crisis breaks down your front door or slowly creeps into your life, a decision must be made to handle it or be handled. How will you respond? How will you recognize it? What tools do you have to deal with it? What first steps can you take today to strengthen your resolve to manage any crisis that comes at you?” ~ Tony Langstaff – Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist 1) Make A List Of Things You Will No Longer Do. If…

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How To Be A Great Wife

How To Be A Great Wife ~ 7 Secrets That Will Have Your Husband Kissing The Ground You Walk On “Behind Every Successful Man Is A Great Woman!” ~ Author Unknown 1) Build Him Up As Your Protector. Do you believe in your husband? Do you make him feel strong by the words that you speak or do you tear him down and make him feel weak? Do you follow his lead or do you crack the whip and expect him to follow your every command? Men always know whether…

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Secrets of Great Relationships

“Great Relationships Do Not Just Happen. They Are The Result of Bold Decisions.” ~ Mark Webb 1) A great relationship requires effort and sacrifice. What you get out of it is the same degree you put into it. Don’t cut corners and try to be cheap in your efforts. Going the extra mile will bless you in uncountable ways. 2) Don’t talk bad about your partner behind their back. What they don’t know won’t hurt them but it will gradually destroy how you view your partner. Your friends will follow…

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Thoughts That Will Drive You Crazy!

Mindreading, Catastrophizing, and Five Other Thoughts That Will Drive You Crazy! “When it is not in our power to determine what is true, we ought to follow what is most probable.” ― René Descartes Your thoughts have a direct influence on how you feel. If you have distorted thought processes, you will suffer needlessly with anxiety, anger, depression and low self-esteem. Here are seven distorted thinking patterns and how you can learn to think more rationally about yourself and your world: 1) Mindreading. Mind readers make assumptions about how other…

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Is Your Relationship Going Down The Tubes

“I love being married. It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” ~Rita Rudner 1) You No Longer Have Anything In Common. Do you and your partner live separate lives? Do you attend social functions together but don’t interact? Do you spend hours together but rarely talk about anything meaning? 2) Never Compliment Each Other. When is the last time you told your wife she is beautiful? That your husband is handsome? Do you ever acknowledge their hard work…

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